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Helping Your Team Deal With Mistakes

Helping Your Team Deal With Mistakes

“Creativity is allowing yourself to make mistakes. Art is knowing which ones to keep.” – Scott Adams

No matter how well your team prepares or what precautions they take, mistakes will happen. Mistakes are an essential part of life. Without them, it is not possible to fully grow and learn. When mistakes do occur, the key is for the team to bounce back, learn from them, and move forward. If your team learns from their mistakes, they are less likely to repeat them.

Take Responsibility For Mistakes

There are two ways to handle mistakes. You can deny the mistake or blame others, or you can accept it and take responsibility for your actions. Becoming defensive and making excuses for their mistakes will not help your team grow or improve. Accepting responsibility for mistakes is always the better option. It is the mature decision and a sign of integrity.

How to Accept Responsibility:

  • Make an appropriate apology: Apologize for mistakes. Do not, however, grovel or become overly emotional.
  • Explain the mistake and the process that led to it.

Related: Find out more about TBAE’s Goal Setting Outcome Based Team Building Activities

Bouncing Back From Mistakes

Encourage your team members to never allow their mistakes to paralyze them. Living in fear of making another mistake will stunt the team’s growth. Everyone makes mistakes, but successful people are able to bounce back. They will make mistakes, but they must be sure to get back on track when mistakes occur. They must keep a positive attitude in the face of mistakes and see them as opportunities for growth. Your team must persevere and focus on the future. Never live in the past. The ability to bounce back after making a mistake shows strength and resilience.

Related: Resilience Outcome Based Team Building Activities

Learn From Mistakes

Mistakes are opportunities to adapt and learn. In order to learn from a mistake, your team must look at the situation honestly. It is imperative that your team shows others, they are able to adapt and change in the face of mistakes. This skill will help your team preserve their reputation. To learn from their mistakes your team should ask themselves the following questions:

  • What went wrong?
  • How did it happen?
  • When did it happen?
  • Why did it happen?
  • How could it have been prevented?

Once you they have the answers to these questions, they will be able to adapt their actions in the future.

Overcome Mistakes By Asking For Help

You can only help your team members when they ask for it. Your team members cannot expect people to automatically know when they need them. When they do ask for help, encourage them to follow basic etiquette.

  • Ask: Do not demand that people help you or manipulate them with guilt.
  • Be straightforward: Do not be dramatic or minimize the help necessary.
  • Be thankful: Always thank friends who are willing to help you succeed.

It Is Not My Fault

George Bernard Shaw quote on taking responsibility

“We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future.”
– George Bernard Shaw

Today, we are progressively living in an ‘it is not my fault’ society. When someone is confronted  with wrong doing or not delivering on a promise, the response is the  inevitable ‘it is not my fault’. Shifting blame and not taking responsibility as become a chronic disease of our age.

We tend to blame others or our circumstances for our shortcomings and lack of drive. Life did not give us the lucky breaks that others got and that is why they are successful and we are not. But is it really life that is at fault? Consider the example of two people playing on the same piano. One plays it correctly and produces beautiful harmonious sounds while another plays it falsely and the same piano produces utter ugliness. In the same way, whether life produces discord or harmony, is up to the player.

But what about those things that happen to us over which we have no control? In life, things do happen over which we have no control, but we do have control over how we are going to respond to them. If you are standing by the edge of a swimming pool and somebody pushes you in the water, then of course it was not your fault that you ended up in the water. But only you are to blame if you stay in the water.

If you want a brighter future, start today by accepting responsibility for your future.

 

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